You Just Need to Believe that Some Problems Can Resolve Themselves.😇

Published: Sun, 10/03/21

You Can't Control Everything, Sometimes You Just need to Relax

and Have Faith that Things Will Work Out. Let Go a Little and Just Let Life Happen.

Kody Keplinger

“When we stop trying to control events, they fall into a natural order, an order that works. We’re at rest while a power much greater than our own takes over, and it does a much better job than we could have done.”

Marianne Williamson.

Let Life Surprise You.

I’m not gonna lie; it’s hard for me to relinquish control of the possible solution to a problem by allowing the universe to do its thing. At first, the idea was alien to me. Like many of us, I used to think I had to keep battering the problem with possible solutions until it tapped out or I gave up. By then, I’d expended enough stress and emotional energy to fuel London for a week.

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Not good for our mental or physical health.
It’s just that most of us don’t have the tools to approach problems differently. When problems occur, we worry, get anxious and try to fix them. Even though we don’t have all the answers and the facts surrounding the issue we’re worried about are still murky, we take excessive action.
It’s just what we’re used to doing, right?
But there is another way.

Now I’m not saying this works for every problem, and the magic to this is knowing when to apply it, but it can almost seem miraculous when you do.
Over a decade ago, I found myself looking at the collapse of a business that I’d committed years of time and energy towards. At the end of that stressful period, I was so beaten and tired, I was ready to throw in the towel, but for some reason, I had a shift in perspective.

What if I got out of my way and trusted that my problems would resolve themselves.
This wasn’t the way I had ever handled my problems, but I was burnt out and exhausted. So I did it.

And with some minor involvement on my part, it worked itself out. If we take an honest look back on our lives, we will see we’ve had many instances where our problems resolved themselves when we held onto an inherent trust that life knows what it’s doing.

For me, it came to me quietly without any fanfare, and I just knew it was right.
Often, circumstances will fix themselves with little or no participation on our behalf. It’s difficult sometimes to know whether we need to take action or leave things alone. My advice for that is to sit quietly with your problem and let it guide you.
As I said, that’s the magic.

Obviously, there are matters where immediate action is required, such as our health, finances, career or relationships. But within that broad-spectrum, there are many opportunities we can use to let go.
How willing are you to try it?

You’ve been trying the same methods every time you face a bump in the road. Remember what they say about doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result.
Madness.

You’ll develop a sense of when you can apply this principle but only through experience. Get out of your own way and keep your wits about you. A resolution will emerge better than you can imagine. It requires faith, practice, patience, and the willingness to try something that not many people understand.
But you’re simply working with the natural order.
Go ahead; try it.

You Got This!