Embrace the Obstacles. Let them Make you Stronger. They wont Last Forever

Published: Sun, 12/17/17

Without Rain Nothing Grows, Learn to  Embrace the Storms of Life

 —  Unknown


When I'm at home working nine times out of ten, my writing ecosystem comprises of a film playing in the background on low or music. The times I've gained story ideas or just inspiration from this kind of auditory stimulus, makes me believe it is useful to my writing process. I don't question it, just go with the flow. I stumbled across this reggae track  Life Goes On by artist Spanner Banner. A tune I hadn't  heard for such a long time. It obviously brought back memories of growing up in Jamaica.  The video quality is poor but the lyrics are deep. It immediately got me thinking about how we've been taught to view adversity and the challenges of life. Spanner Banner's lyrics speak of his approach to the vagaries of existence but not in a negative way because the song is filled with optimism and a kind of acceptance of the obstacles in life.

I wonder Why some people sigh...
Life goes on
Life goes on
Life goes on
And Every day another baby's born

If I knew then what I know now I wouldn't have struggled with adversity and given it the kind of power over me as I did.  I would have realised that disasters and trials are the tools we are given for growth. Failure has more lessons to teach us than mere success. Not that you're searching out failure but what I'm saying is most of us only learn from disaster, disappointment and failure. If we are striving to be the best we can be then the meaning we give to these challenges must be an empowering enough to keep us on the path.
Life Goes On! 
Let's face it. For most of us it's easier not to change. But the comfort of always doing what we've always done but expecting a different result, is not only destroying us but is classed as insanity. When an obstacle floors us, it's the very presence of that obstacle that gives you the ability to overcome it. Ask yourself. If there was a way around that metaphorical barrier would you commit to overcoming that challenge by changing your actions and your thinking, just because you could? My investigations led me to an ancient Roman philosophy of stoicism and the Emperor Marcus Aurelius who believed that we can't control most things that happen to us but we can control how we respond to what happens to us. And if we embrace this philosophy there are no longer obstacles, problems or setbacks but opportunities. I loved that.

My book recommendation this week is Ryan Holiday's brilliant  - The Obstacle is the Way. The book delves into the stoic philosophy as ascribed by Marcus Aurelius who proposed the impediment to action, advances action. What stands in the way, becomes the way. A recipe for life and business if I ever heard one and one we should all strive to follow.

Hope it helps.

Peace, Love and Power

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