The Year You Stop Negotiating With Comfort⏰💆👟

Published: Sat, 01/31/26

Updated: Sat, 01/31/26

“Comfort is the Worst Addiction.”

Marcus Aurelius

Every year, people promise themselves change. New habits. New goals. New versions of themselves. Most of those promises dissolve by February. Not because people are lazy. But because they’re negotiating with comfort.

I know this game well. I’ve played it for years.

Here’s a small, almost embarrassing example from my own life. I grew up in Jamaica. Cold showers existed, sure. But cold in Jamaica is polite. It taps you on the shoulder. Cold in the UK is a slap across the face. I knew for years that cold water exposure was good for me — mental resilience, circulation, mood regulation. I knew the science. I knew the benefits. I even wrote notes about “starting cold showers soon.”

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Comfort feels Safe Until You Realize What its Costing You.

And yet, every morning, I chose comfort.

I had all the facts, but I couldn’t bring myself to handle the discomfort.

What changed?

I was doing myself a disservice, so this year, I finally turned the dial all the way cold.

The first time, my body revolted. My mind screamed. Every instinct told me to step out. But I stayed. Thirty seconds. Then a minute. Then longer. Now, it’s part of my life. Not because it got easy. But because I decided the hard thing would no longer be optional.

The Intergalactic Catwalk Challenge: Alien Fashion Has Landed.

“They don’t just wear the future. They are the future.”

🪐 The Premise:

On the runways of cosmic metropolises — from the floating markets of Nubia-6 to the asteroid citadels of Neo-Kumasi — alien fashion models dominate the scene.

These beings don’t just model clothes.
They channel forgotten lineages, wear molecularly programmed fabrics, and alter their form to match the mood of the music.
Their movements collapse timelines. Their presence ignites political uprisings.
And every one of them traces their origin to Earth’s lost continent: Afra-Terra — a splinter dimension shaped by ancestral African dreams.

Some of them wear nothing.
Others wear sentient silks, ink-coded scarification, or biotech woven from memory strands.

The question is:
What does your alien model wear — and why?

🎥 The Challenge

VISUAL ENTRY (Required)
Create a full-body image of your Afrofuturist alien fashion model.
They must be otherworldly — yet unmistakably African in style, rhythm, or essence.

Use AI, freehand, digital illustration, collage, or 3D

Include futuristic or symbolic accessories (e.g. ancestral data tattoos, anti-gravity gele, sound-reactive fabric)

Optional: Pose your model mid-stride, mid-shift, or mid-transmission

TEXT ENTRY (Required)
Write a 250–300 word fashion dossier or catwalk profile that answers:

Name & origin planet/dimension

What they wear (or refuse to)

What makes them a standout in the fashion multiverse

A quote or thought from the model before they step onto the runway

Optional: Their impact on culture, rebellion, diplomacy, or tech

A magazine profile (Intergalactic Style Digest, 2188)

A leaked designer memo

A fan post from a cult fashion blog

🧠 Afrofuturist Angle:

This challenge reclaims fashion as ancestral storytelling — woven with cosmic geometry, African futurisms, and the tech-weaving wisdom of our lineages.
Your models don't just look stunning — they speak to legacy, land, and the next evolution of identity.

🏆 Prizes:

🥇 First Place: $50 + full feature + animated character video (if possible) + inclusion in The Intergalactic Fashion Codex PDF

🥈 Second Place: $25 + feature in newsletter

🥉 Third Place: $10 + mention in the "Holographic Highlights" visual reel

Select entries may appear in:

An Urban Fantastic art zine

A digital “Alien Vogue” reel

The AI-generated Intergalactic Runway Show (let’s build this!)

📬 Submit to: marksmanstudios1@gmail.com
Subject line: "Alien Fashion Model Submission."
Attach your image and/or paste your write-up in the email.

📅 Deadline: 25th January 2026

Attach your art + text entry. You may include your social handle if you'd like to be tagged.

That’s when I remembered something important:

Hard things don’t get easier. You get stronger.

The same is true of my writing this year. I’ve set goals that stretch me far beyond my comfort zone. Bigger projects. Deeper work. Higher standards. More exposure. More risk. Not because I feel ready — but because I’m tired of protecting a smaller version of myself.

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That’s what “approach coping” really means.
Not fearlessness.
Not confidence.
Just choosing to move toward the discomfort instead of away from it.

Avoidance coping feels harmless at first. Delay the conversation. Skip the hard habit. Postpone the difficult decision. But avoidance has interest. It compounds. The thing you didn’t do yesterday becomes heavier today. The boundary you didn’t set becomes harder next month. The dream you didn’t commit to becomes regret in five years.

Hard things have a strange gift.
They simplify your life.

Once the boundary is set, you’re free.
Once the conversation is done, it’s over.
Once the habit is established, it no longer requires negotiation.
Once you commit, the exhausting inner debate ends.

Most people are not tired because life is hard.
They’re tired because they’re constantly negotiating with themselves.

As a speculative fiction author, I build worlds where characters face trials that transform them. The irony is, real life is written the same way. There is always a threshold moment — the point where the protagonist stops running and steps forward.

Your hard thing is personal.
It might be speaking up.
Leaving something that drains you.
Starting something you’ve been circling for years.
Setting a boundary.
Facing a debt.
Protecting your time.
Writing the first sentence.
Turning the water cold.

I don’t need to tell you what it is because we all know. We are reminded of it every day. But if it's one thing we humans are good at, it's ignoring what we know we should do.

This year is about awareness, not motivation. Motivation is weather.
This year is about decision.

You don’t need to overhaul your entire life. You just need to pick one hard thing and stop negotiating with it. Do it badly. Do it scared. Do it without waiting to feel ready.

Confidence doesn’t come before the action.
It comes from surviving the action.

With hindsight, nobody truly regrets testing and experimenting. They regret what they delayed or never tried, only to find it was too late. The missed conversations. The unlived paths. The comfortable cages.

This is the year to do hard things.

We’re not watching the crowd. All we know is that life becomes smaller every time we avoid the thing that could expand us.

Start where you are.
Turn up the dial.
And don’t wait as long as I did to step into the cold.

Peace, love and power.