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What I didnât realise was that every breakthrough in my writing life came from something that, at the time, seemed unrelated.
A random conversation. A book outside my usual interests. A mistake that forced me to rethink my approach. The best lessons
didnât come from moving forwardâthey came from unexpected angles.
Thatâs because achievement isnât about bulldozing forward. Itâs about positioning yourself for discovery. Itâs about embracing the detours, absorbing unexpected lessons, and understanding that progress often happens sideways before it moves forward.
The Myth of the Linear Path
Society teaches us to think in straight lines. Do well in school, attend university, get a good job, climb the career ladder, and retire comfortably. Itâs a nice story.
Too bad it doesnât work like that.
Life is messy. You might start down one road and realise it leads nowhere. You might pour years into something that turns out to be a dead
endâonly to find that the skills, knowledge, and resilience you built along the way suddenly unlock an entirely different opportunity.
The direct route to success doesnât exist because you donât fully know what success looks like until you get close to it. When you start out, your vision is incomplete. You think you know what you want, but what you wish to evolve as you do. The journey itself reshapes your
destination.
The Power of Indirect Effort
Most of the breakthroughs in history have come from oblique pathsâsolutions that emerged from unexpected angles. Think about how penicillin was discovered. Alexander Fleming wasnât trying to revolutionise medicine; he was just a scientist curious about a mould growing in his petri dish.
In his book Obliquity, economist John Kay argues that the greatest successes are achieved indirectly. The best businesses donât become great by chasing profits aloneâthey become great by focusing on quality, innovation, or customer experience, and profits follow. The happiest people donât find joy by relentlessly pursuing happinessâthey see it through meaningful work, relationships, and experiences, and happiness emerges as a byproduct.
You donât build a fulfilling life by obsessing over success. You build it by following your curiosity, developing skills, and allowing opportunities to emerge from the unexpected intersections of your experiences.
The Detours That Define You
If you feel stuck or uncertain, thatâs not a sign of failure. Itâs a sign that youâre exactly where you need to
be. Success doesnât come from moving faster in a straight line. It comes from staying engaged with the process long enough to see connections others miss.
That means allowing yourself to explore without constantly worrying about efficiency. Read widely. Try things that seem unrelated to your main goal. Have conversations that donât appear immediately useful. Some of the most transformative moments in your life will come from things
you initially dismissed as distractions.
Looking back, I see that my biggest leaps didnât come from doubling down on my plan. They came from stepping outside of it. The books that influenced me most werenât the ones I set out to read. The people who changed my perspective werenât the ones I thought I needed to meet. The skills that propelled me forward werenât always the ones I set out to master.
If youâre obsessed with moving forward, you might miss the door that was slightly to your leftâthe one leading to something greater than you imagined.
Stop Trying to Be Efficient
Efficiency has its place. However, efficiency is overrated when it comes to meaningful work and personal growth. The most successful people arenât just focused on racing to the
finish line. Theyâre the ones who stay open, adapt, and allow themselves to be shaped by the journey.
Perfection doesnât exist.
Instead, cultivate depth. Build skills. Follow your curiosity. Allow your goals to shift as you gather more information. And trust that the indirect pathâthe one full of detours and side questsâis the one that will take you exactly where you
need to go.
In the end, success isnât about finding the shortest path. Itâs about walking the one that teaches you what success truly means.
Now get walking, Gentle Reader.
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Peace, love and power.
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