Joshua N'Gon: Last Prince of Alkebulahn.
Now, I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. Your 'why' doesn't have to be some grand, world-changing mission. It doesn't have to be about
becoming the next Octavia Butler or Nnedi Okorafor (though if that's your dream, chase it with everything you've got). Your 'why' can be as simple as wanting to see your kids grow up happy and healthy. It can be about creating art that speaks to just one person's soul. Hell, it can even be about proving everyone who ever doubted you wrong.
The power of your 'why' isn't in its size or scope. It's in how it resonates with you and
lights a fire in your belly, even on the coldest days.
But here's where it gets tricky. Society has a way of defining your 'why' for you. It'll tell you that your purpose should be making more money, climbing that corporate ladder, or fitting into some predefined box. And let me tell you, that's a trap. A 'why' that's not truly yours is like wearing shoes that don't fit - you might be able to walk in them, but every step is
gonna hurt.
So, how do you find your 'why'? What It's not is looking outside yourself. It's about looking within. What makes you lose track of time? What makes you feel alive? What would you do even if no one ever paid you or praised you for it? That's where your 'why' lives.
And here's the beautiful thing - your 'why' can change. As you grow and evolve, so can
your purpose. That's not flakiness; that's growth.
Embrace it.
Now, let's get real for a second. Having a 'why' doesn't mean life's gonna be all sunshine and rainbows. You're still gonna face challenges, setbacks, and days when you want to throw in the towel. But your 'why' is like a compass in a storm. It might not calm
the waves, but it'll keep you pointed in the right direction.
So this week, I want you to do something for me. Take some time to sit with yourself. Turn off the noise, the social media, and the constant buzz of the world. Ask yourself, "What's my 'why'?" And when you find it, hold onto it tight. Let it be your anchor when the seas get rough.
Remember, always,
always keep your 'why' close to your heart. That's what's gonna see you through, no matter what plot twists life throws your way.
Stay strong, stay true, and keep writing your story.
Peace, love and power.