Care Enough About Your Own Life Story to Become its Hero 🦸

Published: Wed, 05/31/23

I refuse to let this world crumble my character. I am the author, I am the story, I am the hero. I will write myself.

– Liv Armelle

When was the last time you got told you were selfish? I mean by someone close to you. I was often told that at the beginning of my writing career. Not so much now, as I think the message is getting through. But that message is difficult for 95% of your nearest and dearest to understand.
If I’m unsatisfied with my life, what value can I bring to others? I need to be the hero of my story first.

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I am the Hero of this Story.

That pill is a hard one to swallow for a lot of people. I struggled with it for a long time. We all would like our families and friends to participate in our stories. The reality is they will be, but just not necessarily in the way we imagined. Only a small percentage of them will understand what you’re trying to do, while the rest will call you selfish at best or narcissistic at worst.

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“About all you can do in life is be who you are. Some people will love you for you. Most will love you for what you can do for them, and some won’t like you at all.”
— Rita Mae Brown

In a world filled with constant noise and distractions, losing sight of what truly matters is easy. We often get caught up in demands made on us and with the opinions of others. But what if we shifted our focus inward and cared enough about our life stories to become the heroes of our own narratives? What if we understood that the world is changed not by our opinions alone but by the examples we set? We need to embrace our own stories and become the heroes of our own lives because that’s the only way we can contribute to the world at large.

So what do we do?

I got your back.

Cultivate a Thick Skin

Get used to being told you’re selfish, and your needs should be second to everyone else’s. If it comes down to it, you need the fortitude to tell anyone that self-care is first and foremost. Only when you’re good, do you step out into the world as the hero of your story.

Embrace your uniqueness

Each of us has a unique set of experiences, talents, and perspectives. Embracing this uniqueness is the first step towards becoming the hero of your own life story. Understand that your story is valuable and worth exploring.

Define your values and goals

To become the hero of your life story, you must define your values and set meaningful goals. Your example will inspire others when they witness your dedication to your beliefs.

Take ownership of your actions

Heroes are known for their courage, integrity, and accountability. To become the hero of your life story, take ownership of your actions. Accept responsibility for both your successes and failures. Learn from your mistakes and make amends when necessary. Doing so demonstrates resilience and growth, inspiring others to do the same.

Cultivate a growth mindset

Believe that you have the capacity to learn, adapt, and improve. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth rather than obstacles. Your willingness to embrace a growth mindset will transform your life and inspire others to adopt a similar outlook.

Lead by example

Your actions speak louder than your words.

Caring enough about your own life story to become its hero is a transformative journey that profoundly impacts your own life and the lives of those around you. Remember, the world is changed not by our opinions alone but by the examples we set. So, care enough about your own life story and let it be a source of inspiration and empowerment for others to do the same.

Be Your Own Hero.