You Are Where You Are in Life Because You Decided to Be There.🎲🎲🎲

Published: Tue, 06/27/23

The Future Depends on What You Do Today.

– Mahatma Gandhi

I know the Pitch Forks are at the ready when I say stuff like this, so let me clarify. My personal philosophy is that for MOST things in life, you are where you are because you decided to be there.
But there are exceptions.
Life can throw the most painful experiences at us, no matter how prepared our minds are. And they will hurt.

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For most of us, these are the exceptions to the rule. The kind of events we did not call upon willingly or by the type of life we lived. So what I’m saying is you’re not a bad person because you’ve had some bad times. Try not to take it personally - as difficult as that is. No matter how unfair they seem, these instances are out of our control.
The question is will we learn something from it.
These are the exception to the rule.

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Okay, now that is out of the way, what are the reasons why we are where we are.
Let’s get this out of the way.
You don’t deserve anything more or less than you currently have. You are exactly where you should be, and no manner wishing in the world will ever change that.

First, It’s important to understand that life isn’t happening to you. You’re choosing to live your life a certain way.
Your circumstances are a mirror of how you see yourself.
What are you willing to accept?

You need to ask that question yourself because it will define who you become.
I’m not saying that you will automatically get what you want just because of your high standards. Life is never that easy, and chances are there will be a struggle getting to where you want to go if you achieve it at all. But here’s where the magic lies.
It’s not about achieving that standard; it’s about constantly working toward it and eventually surpassing it. The intention is to become the kind of person who would exhibit these standards and always strives to meet or exceed them.

Decisions are the building blocks of our lives. Every choice we make, from the trivial to the life-altering, contributes to our personal narrative. Even seemingly insignificant decisions can create a chain reaction that leads us to unforeseen destinations. I firmly believe in celebrating the agency we possess in decision-making and our power in shaping our reality.

We are no longer victims.
Embracing the belief that we are where we should be because we decided, fosters personal responsibility. It urges us to take ownership of our lives, recognizing that we hold the key to our own happiness and fulfilment. Rather than relying on external factors to determine our worth or trajectory, we acknowledge that our choices, actions, and decisions shape our reality.

This is powerful stuff.

I’m proposing a paradigm shift in how we look at life that says we are exactly where we should be because we decided to be there by our decisions. It allows us to embrace the power of our choices, take responsibility for our lives, and navigate our journey with intention and purpose. By understanding that our decisions shape our reality, we gain the agency to transform our circumstances and create a future aligned with our deepest desires. Remember, you are exactly where you should be because you decided to be there—now, seize the opportunity and be where you want to be.

Be Your Own Hero.